I’ve been taking these kids’ pics since their oldest was a wee babe. They are crazy-photogenic! It’s always a treat to take pics of them because my camera just loves their big brown eyes.
The other day my daughter and I were shopping together when she showed me a shirt that made us both laugh. It said “No pictures please.”
We got a good giggle out of this because my daughter doesn’t like getting her pictures taken by me. Maybe it’s because photography is my passion (and my profit) so it’s her way to rebel against the thing she knows I love. I think many photographers’ kids are like this:
{This is his “Enough pictures, Mom” face}
{This is my failed attempt to get a good photo of all three of them together}
So whether you’re a photographer whose kids have had one too many pictures taken and are burnt out or whether you are a Mama whose kids just don’t warm up in front of the camera, here’s 4 effective ways for getting your kids to cooperate for photos.
1. Make it a date
At least once a year I try to do a special session with my children to document their growth and just plain cuteness. We make it a big deal where we choose a special outfit or two, some fun props, and they get Mommy all to themselves on this special evening. I usually take them out for their dessert afterwards like hot cocoa, cake, ice cream, etc. This is a great motivator for good behavior and a fun memory maker.
2. Keep them Busy
It’s important to keep children busy so they don’t get bored or start misbehaving. That’s the main reason that I bring along non-cheesy, picturesque props such as bubbles, wooden toys, wagons, balls, etc. I also have them DO something like jump on the bed, play peek-a-boo, etc. so they will open up and be themselves and forget that their picture is being taken.
3. Use potty words
Let’s be real. When you bust out the bathroom talk, kids ages 2-10 (and beyond) think it’s the funniest thing ever. Especially to hear Mom say it. So yes, I use this when technique on my own children when needed. Desperate times call for desperate measures.
3. When all else fails: Bribery, baby!
I am not past using a little bribery now and then to get a good photograph. Smarties, Cheerios, and a treasure box are a photographer’s best friend in getting kids to do what you want them to do. I’ve found that Smarties and Cheerios are easy bribery for young children and create the least amount of mess. Treasure boxes filled with inexpensive goodies work really well for older children and I’m sure money would work well for your teenagers, depending on how desperate you are to get the pic.
WHAT TRICKS DO YOU USE TO GET YOUR KIDS TO COOPERATE FOR PHOTOS?
Every once in a while I have the privilege of doing something truly meaningful with my photography to help someone out who is struggling. This session was very dear to my heart because not only was it done to help someone out but it was for a dear friend of mine whose paths were destined to cross. Jennifer Wyeth of Jennifer Wyeth Photography hired me for a photography business makeover from Francypants Academy and we instantly became friends. It was a crazy coincidence that she ended up moving to the same city I lived in only a few months after taking my online class. We have tons in common and love hangin’ together.
A few months ago, we planned to go on a double date with our hubbies. Then I got a text from her saying that she couldn’t go out with us because her son, Carter, was sick. The next text I got from her was this: “He got diagnosed with leukemia last night. He’ll get better but it will take a few years. We are at the hospital for the weekend at least if not longer. We don’t know any details yet.” I was SHOCKED! I couldn’t believe how quickly her life had changed and how scary that would be for a Mama. It made me hug my kids a little more that weekend.
Jenn and I don’t get to hang out as much anymore since Carter was diagnosed but I REALLY REALLY wanted to do something special for her so I asked her if we could please do a video and photo shoot documenting Carter’s cancer and Jenn was totally down for it. It was SO wonderful to work with her and little Carter. He is such a cute and clever kid! He would say the darndest things. And Jenn…She has handled everything SO amazingly well! She’s been so optimistic about it all and is such a strong person. I am lucky to call you my friend, Jenn. I hope these pictures touch your heart as much as they touched mine in having the honor of taking them.
The video will be up tomorrow. It’s a tear-jerker!
I am still so amazed and what KIND clients I get to work with. They have the most amazing hearts! This family was SO sweet! Just wait till you see their video (tomorrow) and you’ll know what I mean.